Gospel singer [Deborah Akinyemi](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nigerian_gospel_music) told reporters that her husband, Francis, fled their home on 31 March 2016 after she uncovered his plan to involve her in a money‑raising ritual, ending a marriage that began on 24 May 2014.
**What led to the sudden departure?**
Deborah explained that while she was asleep, she felt a spiritual prompting that led her to look under a chair in their bedroom. There she found a small pot that she later identified as a "ritual pot" intended for an "Ajo Owo" (money‑raising) ceremony. She said the [Holy Spirit](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Holy_Spirit) awakened her, warning her not to sit on the chair and to investigate the hidden object.
**Key facts:**
- Marriage date: 24 May 2014.
- Husband’s disappearance: 31 March 2016, and he has not returned since.
- The ritual pot was discovered under a chair while Deborah was sleeping.
- Deborah claims the ritual was meant to exploit her finances and emotional support.
- She described the experience as "wasted years" and expressed a desire to reclaim the support she gave.
**What did she say about the experience?**
> "Wasted years, Kai. How I wish I could turn back the hand of time and > collect back all my financial, mental, emotional, and physical support. I > gave my tears, my body, everything, and you ran away on 31 March 2016. I > have overcome it, but I will always speak of the pain you caused."
Deborah reflected on the emotional toll, noting that she had stood by her husband through numerous challenges, only to discover his hidden agenda. She emphasized that she now understands the importance of spiritual discernment and warns others to be vigilant about similar practices.
**What is the broader significance?**
The story highlights concerns about ritualistic exploitation in Nigeria, where some individuals allegedly use traditional or occult practices to gain financial advantage. It also underscores the vulnerability of spouses who may be unaware of such schemes until they become evident.
Deborah concluded that, despite the trauma, she remains steadfast in her faith and urges other women to seek divine guidance when faced with suspicious circumstances.