A Nigerian medical professional, Obianma Onya, has shared her distressing childhood experiences with racism during her time in Russia, then known as the USSR.
At just five years old, Obianma moved to Moscow with her parents. She vividly remembers being verbally abused by her peers who referred to her as a monkey due to her appearance.
Initially, these incidents left her in tears as she returned home after facing the taunts. However, her mother provided her with crucial encouragement, reminding her that being Black signifies strength.
This pivotal support inspired her to confront her young tormentors directly and respond with courage. She took a stand and engaged physically with those who bullied her.
Dr. Onya offered guidance to parents of children encountering harsh circumstances, highlighting the need for positive affirmations that can enhance self-esteem and cultivate a healthy self-image.
In her reflections, she recalls, "This little girl… about five years old, circa 1977. Her name was Miss Obianma Nneka Ozokwo. I had just started school in Moscow, former USSR, and it was not an easy journey. Some children mocked me, calling me 'abizian,' a term that translates to 'monkey' in Russian. I would often come home in tears after these experiences."
She credits her mother for her shift in perspective, saying, "You are Black, and that means you are strong." This message resonated profoundly within her.
The era also coincided with the prominence of figures like Muhammad Ali, which infused her with a sense of empowerment and self-worth. It instigated a transformation in her view of herself.
Obianma notes, "I stopped shrinking and stood my ground. I refused to be intimidated, and I retaliated with vigor against my bullies. Interestingly enough, the bullying ceased."
Through this experience, she not only found her voice but excelled academically, frequently topping her class. What began as a challenging chapter of her life evolved into a defining moment.
Upon reflection, she emphasizes the importance of identity and the strength it fosters, asserting that confidence is cultivated and resilience is built from experiences.
To all children facing difficult situations, and their families, she stresses that the words spoken to a child significantly influence their ability to confront the world. She expresses gratitude for the nurturing foundation her mother provided.
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