Nigerian Man Claims Control Over Women He Supports Financially in Viral Video

A Nigerian man has ignited a significant debate on social media concerning his views on controlling women within romantic relationships.

In a video he posted, the individual proclaimed that if he is responsible for supporting a woman's lifestyle and settling her bills, he believes he should have the authority to dictate her actions.

He stated:

‘’Listen, if I am taking care of you, covering your expenses, and ensuring that you are free from any stress, then I will have control over you.

Men nowadays are becoming overly soft. You might see a man whose girlfriend wants to step out, dressing provocatively, showing off her body, and he will say, 'I don't want you to dress this way.' Then she starts complaining, saying, 'You are too controlling, you are too insecure; that's a red flag.' All this nonsense from TikTok is crazy.

I will check your phone. You should have no privacy if you have nothing to hide. I will specify which friends you cannot associate with, and you are expected to comply. If you don’t want to follow these guidelines, no one is forcing you to be in this relationship. If you are serious about us, be serious; if not, then leave. All this indecision is why many relationships fail. There are men who fear being men now, concerned about what people will think.

I will control you! You will not choose how you dress, nor will you go anywhere you wish. You will not maintain friendships with other men. This idea of ‘this is my bro’ is absurd. It is impossible for a man to have sex with a woman and then be her friend. Friends do not have sexual relations.,” he expressed.

Watch the video below.