Clergyman Kingsley Okonkwo Attributes Financial Struggles of Single Men to Lack of Marriage

Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo has remarked that a significant number of men reaching their forties struggle financially because they have chosen not to marry.

During a recent sermon at his church, Pastor Kingsley shared his views:

‘’If you are a single man above the age of 28, this is not a strict rule, but one of the smartest decisions you can make for your future is to marry. Many single men believe ‘it is because I lack money that I am not married.’ On the contrary, it is actually because you are not married that you are facing financial challenges.

Statistics reveal that those who are married tend to earn more than their single counterparts. The rationale is straightforward: married individuals are driven to earn more.

As a single man, there is less urgency to increase your income; your basic food needs can be met. Unlike married friends who have families to support, which motivates them to earn more. Once you recognize that you must provide for a family, everything in life—your will, spirit, and physical efforts—will align to help you reach that next level.

Pastor Kingsley outlined that there are multiple aspects, not just finances, needed for a young man to consider marriage. He pointed out that, according to the Bible, there are essential actions to take during your youth. Delaying marriage until the age of 40 is not advisable.

The Bible highlights three key responsibilities for youth: First, take on your burdens while you are still young, which means investing in your career early on when your energy is high. Second, cultivate a relationship with God in your youthful days. Lastly, it is important to marry when you are young; as time progresses, the complexities of managing marriage become more challenging without youthful vigor.

Many young men may not be aware that their circumstances change after they turn 40. Thus, it is unwise to start a fresh journey at that stage. Early marriage allows for growth alongside your children and passing on valuable life lessons to them.