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Nigerian Woman Recounts Unpleasant Encounter with Compatriot in UK

A Nigerian lady, Lisa Kay, has detailed a negative interaction with a fellow Nigerian woman working in a UK hospital, describing the experience as one of disdain and unfriendliness. She contrasted this with the perceived greater friendliness of Nigerian men abroad.

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A Nigerian woman identified as Lisa Kay has shared her personal experience of perceived rudeness and lack of warmth from another Nigerian woman while in the United Kingdom. Kay recounted attempting to initiate a conversation with the Nigerian healthcare worker, but her efforts were reportedly met with an attitude of disdain.

She further commented on her observations, suggesting that while Nigerian men in the UK might be considered unpredictable, they generally exhibit more friendliness and a welcoming demeanor towards their fellow Nigerians compared to the women. This observation was made in contrast to her specific encounter.

A Nigerian lady shares her experience of an encounter with a fellow Nigerian woman in the UK.

"Some of you Nigerian girls in the UK are really just bitches for real," Kay stated in her narration. She elaborated on this sentiment by saying, "I know men are anyhow people but a man would never, they would be the ones to even want to talk to you."

Illustration representing a negative interaction or disagreement.

Recounting the specific incident, she said, "Over the weekend I went to A&E; because was ill. I met this black babe who works there and I tried to make small talk. I asked this girl if she’s Nigerian and she said yes and me being excited because I have seen my country woman, in excitement asked her which state because that’s usually what follows init."

A visual representation related to an encounter in a hospital setting.

Describing the response she received, Kay stated, "This girl gave me a look of disdain and asked me why I was asking. I was like nothing and then she said she doesn’t tell people where she’s from."

Expressing her feelings about the interaction, she admitted, "Omo, I was pained I’m not even going to lie. Na me no really mind the pain/business that brought me to the hospital in the first place. Some of you here are just mad people for real."

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